Caring for an older loved one is a profound act of love and dedication, but it can also come with significant demands. Prioritising your own needs is just as important as prioritising your family member’s. At Catholic Healthcare, we understand that discussing respite care can be a sensitive and challenging conversation.
Our mission is to provide compassionate, high-quality care, ensuring that both caregivers and care recipients feel supported and valued. Here are some ways that you can approach this important conversation with empathy and clarity. Preparing for the conversation.
Before you start the conversation about aged care respite, it’s essential to be well-prepared. Taking the time to plan can help ensure that the talk will be constructive and supportive, allowing for a smoother transition.
1. Educate yourself: Learn about the different types of respite care available in aged care. We provide a range of respite services, including in-home respite care, day care, and overnight stays, tailored to meet the diverse needs of every individual. Becoming familiar with these options will enable you to offer informed choices to your loved one.
2. Assess needs: Although government-funded aged care services conduct an initial assessment, it’s advisable to evaluate your loved one’s unique needs, considering their daily care requirements, medical conditions, and personal preferences.
3. Gather supporting information: Collect brochures, testimonials and information about the specific respite care services offered. Having this material during the conversation can help to alleviate any concerns that arise.
4. Choose the right time and place: Select a calm, private setting free from distractions. Ensure that both you and your loved one are relaxed and have ample time to talk. A peaceful environment can make the conversation more comfortable and productive.
How to approach the conversation
When discussing respite care, it’s crucial to approach the conversation with sensitivity and empathy. Here are some strategies to facilitate a constructive dialogue:
1. Express feelings openly: Share your feelings about your caregiving responsibilities honestly and listen to their own concerns and fears in turn. Use ‘I’ statements to express your perspective.
2. Highlight the benefits: Emphasise how respite care can enhance their quality of life. At Catholic Healthcare, we offer various activities and social opportunities available at our wellness and respite centres, such as group outings, arts and crafts, and movement therapy classes. Explain how these activities can offer a refreshing change of environment and new social interactions.
3. Involve Them in the Decision-Making: Empower your loved one by involving them in choosing the type of respite care and the schedule that works best. Review the available options together, such as in-home care or overnight stays at a respite centre and make a plan that suits both your needs.
Addressing common concerns
During the discussion, it’s natural that your loved one may have specific worries. Fear of abandonment or loss of independence are common. Take an empathetic stance when addressing these concerns, reassuring them that respite care is temporary and that you will still be actively involved in their care. Highlight how this respite can actually enhance their independence by introducing them to new social and well-being opportunities.
Michelle Webb, Catholic Healthcare’s Wellness and Respite Coordinator tells us about one of her clients, “At night she would wander around the home, causing distress to both herself and her family. This cycle of daytime lethargy and nighttime restlessness was taking a toll.
By attending our centre a remarkable transformation started to occur. As she engaged with activities and interacted with others, it was as though a switch had been flipped. Her personality changed, she became more animated and active during the day.
This new engagement not only revitalised her, but also contributed significantly to her overall well-being. With her energy restored and her sleep patterns normalised, she no longer wandered through the night, giving both her and her caregivers a restful night's sleep.”
Supporting your loved ones through respite care
At Catholic Healthcare, we are committed to providing compassionate and comprehensive respite care services. By approaching the conversation with sensitivity and focusing on the mutual benefits, you can ensure that your loved one feels supported and understood.
For more information the respite care services available in your area, get in touch with our friendly team. Call 1800 225 474 for more information.
About Catholic Healthcare
At Catholic Healthcare, our mission is to promote life in all its fullness by providing compassionate care that enriches the lives of our residents and clients. With over 30 years of experience, we are committed to delivering high-quality aged care across New South Wales and South-East Queensland. Stay connected with us to learn more about our initiatives, programs, and the incredible individuals who make Catholic Healthcare a place of care and connection.